SOULMATE ENIGMA

In life there are things that we want to believe in so we can get on with our uninterested and demeaning existence. To believe that we have fate on our side to reach out for in times of need. Some people believed that each and every person in this universe is destined to have a soul mate. A better half of his/her self to complete the metamorphosis cycle of eternal happiness. So does it really exist. Of course in term of believing in fate it is a must or otherwise you'll be damn for eternally in hell. But in believing in fate one must also have effort in gaining something in life.

So whenever someone ask a person about their effort to seek for a husband or a wife and if he/she answered "I'll let the fate decide" it obviously they don't have any intention in doing so. Because fate won't come to be except we our self make an effort to lead it the way we want it to be then the rest is up to God. Then it is needless to say that when someone don't work to gain what they want then fate will stand still and laugh at the person in despise.

Forever more the question still linger in my unevolved mind does everyone have a soul mate? So i know a girl from my face book connection and she always mention this word every time her status changed. Soul mate this and that. It actually what made me write about this piece in the first place. So one night i was intrigued to ask her back what does soul mate really means and what it stand for in her unending ranting of that word about his relationship with someone. At first i thought she would just brush me off for being a busy body but it went the other way around.

She said in her reply of my message is that she is totally assured that the guy she is with now is the best for her in every way possible. Leave the rest in God's hand, never rely too much on him, a lot of patience and never ever make a haste conclusion and it all depend on our own heart desire. She tells me that she feel the bond between them like something magical and that he's the only one for her. Hmm.....like a megadeth lyrics and i quote "nice story tell it to reader's digest". Assuming that she is honest and from the words i can tell that she is, i totally envy her in so many ways. Cos to feel that bliss state is unimaginable in my existence of a lonely lad. Even so i still believe she's just a few from a billion of populations that have a perception on life as she do. The rest would be like what the hell it's not like that at all and that includes me.

Thus in conclusion i implies that there might be some who's lucky enough to be granted the unending joy in a relationship and they are more of us that felt like jumping off a roof when thinking about relationships and coexistence between different gender as a complete whole.
For all i have said above i plead temporary insanity in it and have a pleasure in enjoying life through the rest of your miserable life for us loner.